We’ve all heard the expression, “Kids will be kids,” right? It means we can’t expect little ones to act like adults. Hoping they’ll smile on command, walk down the aisle while gracefully scattering flower petals, or keep their outfits spotless at a garden wedding is a dream too far—even for your dream wedding. But that’s exactly what makes these 20 Editor’s Picks from our Too Cute category so delightful. These candid, scene-stealing photos capture kids at weddings being mischievous, shy, bored, goofy, and just plain adorable. Scroll down to see our award-winning collection—and get ready to smile!

Having kids at weddings brings a special sweetness to the day, even when things don’t go according to plan. Accomplished photographers know that priceless moments happen when real life unfolds, capturing what is genuine rather than making kids pose or pretend. Sometimes, the moments they capture tug at our heartstrings; other times, they make us smile or laugh. In this collection, every photo was taken spontaneously, with an eye for storytelling and creating lasting memories.

While some may balk at kids who steal the show or melt down during the flower girl gig, the wonderful range of moments a photographer can capture of kids at weddings are endless and forever memorable. For us, the more candid and less staged the image the better, as they remind us of the spontaneity and fluid range of emotions kids are known for. Because working with children is a bit like herding cats, it is almost impossible to create a fake moment or expression. From gigglefests to moments of girls being coy with boys and funny faces with screwed up mouths and bulging out their eyeballs, these silly moments are ones that even a harried couple will laugh at after the fact. As long as you can keep your sense of humor and stay flexible, we think inviting kids is a wonderful way to add sweetness to your wedding day.

Want to see more adorable, hilarious moments of kids, couples and guests having fun at weddings? Check out our Moments Gallery and choose the type of photos you love from over a dozen categories all photographed by our members, the world’s best wedding photographers. And be sure to use our hand-picked directory when you want to find the right photographer for your wedding day!